Why Are My Ex’s Friends Surprised/curious About My Love Life?

Published February 1, 2012

Question by LOVIN me and life: Why are my ex’s friends surprised/curious about my love life?
My ex broke up w. me about 4months ago. He worked sooo hard to pursue me; genuinely cared was even more serious about it than me. I was happy being alone but ultimately decided he was worth being with and he had potential and within a span of 2-3 months, he just “didn’t feel like having a girlfriend anymore”. It was a good relationship; we had the quality of a serious relationship in that short time- met his family, brought me to a wedding, was close w. his good friends, dealt w. money issues, just very comfortable w. each other…when we first met (not dating, talking, etc…), he had told all his friends he had “met someone special”. Right now he wants to be “selfish”, no 3rd party, and “it wasn’t the right time, not ready”. We didn’t have a bad breakup but I cut off everything and just ran away…haven’t spoken to him since. He sent me a few txts reitirating our convo fr. the next before (apologizing) but i never responded back. I’ve never commented on the breakup on fb or have said anything bad about him…nor have i commented on anything about love or relationsihps or revenge…nothing like that.

His friends have been more than nice to me after the breakup. We were never super close but I always got along w. them when I would see them at parties or at their place. His girl friends (who are like his sisters) are very protective of him yet seem to be more protective of me than him. They still love him but always tell me how much they hate what he did to me and would want to see me now then to “catch up” (keep in mind, it’s always them initiating; not me). My ex’s sisters (only met them once but got along great) would always be on my fb account and would “like” my pictures and status. To be honest, the breakup affected my “self esteem” more than my heart. I I worked hard at the new job, met people, kept busy and worked 5-6 days/week, got into scrapbooking more, spent more time w. friends, went out at night more, worked out (LOST 13lbs! , and even went to dinner w. a gentleman i met at a wedding. I just got back from vacation w. family and hawaii and i feel like i’m a completely different person – better and stronger. I also found out I got into nursing school. Great blessings for me. Before I left, I posted a pic of me and a cute dancer who worked at the luau I was with and jokingly put, “yup, i got to bring him home. muahaha” My status read lyrics fr. a song that said “you’re amazing, just the way you are” (which is dedicated to me. I found love for myself in hawaii and finally stoped blaming myself for the breakup). Well, my ex’s uncle (who happens to be my best friend’s boyfriend) made a comment on the pic and said, “so you found a new guy on your vacation…?” I’ve know him longer than my ex and he was never once interested in anything about my personal life. And apparently all my ex’s friends were “talking about the picture” and assumed that I’m now dating that dancer from the luau?! CRAZY…first, it’s not true. I really didn’t think much of it and 2nd, why would they care so much? (and not be rude but the guy in the pic is kind of a big upgrade fr. my ex…just fr. the looks/stature of it…I’ve also changed. I lost weight, fit, tan, did my hair differently, in cute summer outfits…) and 3rd, how could you assume I have a new bf if i’m just taking a pic w. a cute luau dancer? We didn’t date that long…i’m just a girl…i’m his ex, yet they’re still so nice to me and apparently “everyone’s talking about the picture”…which is really nothing – that’s why i’m confused to why it’s a “big deal”/surprise to his friends…
most of them are taken and “coupled” up, yet still curious (not in a nosy way)

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Answer by Prince Fire
maybe they got love interest for you..

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